
Fairy tales, can come true,
it can happen to you,
 if you're  young at heart.
If you are gay and gray... 
And if you, should survive,
to one hundred and five,
look at  all, you'll derive,
 out of being alive!
And here is the best part,
You can live the rest of your life,
in comfort not strife,
in a place in Key West,
where you can build your last nest.
CLICK HERE  to watch a quick news video about where old gay men and women are  moving.  Well, maybe not "old" because nobody is old anymore. They are  just seasoned with salt and pepper hair (if they are lucky enough to  have hair).  The point of the video is that aging gay people need to  think and plan where they will spend the rest of their lives.
A  while back a gay Realtor friend and I were talking about all the cute  gay boys in Key West. (A gay boy can be a guy in his 30s, dear reader.)  He said all boys are cute when they are young. And for the most part  they are.  Age, life, strife, bad boy friends, bad girlfriends, bosses,  too much food, too many drugs, too much booze, too many cigarettes, etc.  can wreak havoc on what was once a cute boy. But just living life  changes the way we all look and over time makes us less attractive than  we once were, whether we are straight or gay. The point being: what  sustains you after your youthful appeal is gone? Who will you turn to  when your sixty four?  Maybe the answer is not who you turn to but  rather where do you live?  Where will you feel comfortable in your  declining years?

In the last twenty years it became almost okay  to be gay in many cosmopolitan areas of America. That is not necessarily true for what I'll call the 'red states'. In those areas  gay people need the approval of the rest of society to  even be tolerated.   There are still those who think gays are sinners that need salvation.
Every year across America (and now the world) when we have  gay pride parades where the drag queens, muscle  boys, leather men, and Polo boys come out to march in unison as family.  God made florists, interior designers, hair stylists, and boys that  march in parades and ride on floats so the rest of us can appreciate the  finer things in life.

The thing is that for many gay people it is the gay community that is  the closest thing many of these single, older people have to family.  In Key West we call it One Human Family.
Gays that are approaching, are at, or are past  retirement age need to consider where they are going to spend their  final years. Think about it. Where do old drag queens end up. Or old  leather muscle gods that are no longer gods and certainly look foolish  in leather. What nursing home or assisted living facility welcomes  queenie old men?  Who will these people dine with on a daily basis? Will  they be welcomed, tolerated, or scorned?
Key West does not have  any gay retirement housing that I am aware of. But the community of Key  West does not have anti-gay bias.  This is a place where it really is  okay to be gay.  If you are a straight reader I question whether you can  appreciate how wonderful it is 
not  to have to conceal who you really are when you are at work or at a  function.  When I was in business up north in America I did not lie  about my life. I just did not share it with others.  That is not right.  But so many gay people have to do that-even now, in the enlightened  years.  The military may be ending the don't ask, don't tell policy, but  it still exists in much of American life. Keep your personal life a  secret to get by. Don't wear costumes and march in parades to let your  co-workers or neighbors know that you prefer the company of men (or  women if you are a lesbian). Is that any way to live? Is that they way  you want to spend the rest of your life?
I learned so much about  acceptance after I moved here. I saw a town and people that really did  not care about the fact that I was gay.  The cashier at Faustos on White  does not care. The cook behind the deli case at Dion's (where you can  get the best friend chicken in Key West) doesn't care.  Wes at Truman  and White Chevron doesn't care. He wants to fix your car. The guys at  Strunk Ace Hardware do not care. The contractors and landscapers that  want your business do not care. They want your money!  All of these  people live their own lives and mind their own business. There are a few  exceptions like the guy with the guy with the FAGS DOOM NATIONS sign  below. But I have not experienced any negativity in the years I have  been here.
CLICK  HERE to search the Key West Association of Realtors mls database.  If you are gay and should survive to one hundred and five (or even  seventy five), consider Key West as the place to spend the rest of your  life in comfort and not stress, where you can build that final nest.  My  name is 
Gary Thomas and I am a  Gay Realtor at 
Preferred  Properties Coastal Realty, Inc. in Key West, Florida, where it is  okay to be gay. Please consider contacting me to help you make your  fairy tale dream of living the rest of your life in Key West come true.  And here is the best part, it can happen to you.